A community for gay men in India
Sometimes, we learn to communicate better.
Sometimes, we learn to trust more.
Sometimes, we learn to love ourselves first.
At Mr n Mr, we believe personal growth and meaningful conversations create stronger relationships. No swiping. No spectacle. Just Sundays, a room, and people ready to show up honestly.
Every Sunday, somewhere in India, Mr Right is walking into a room.
Chapters gathering this quarter
Two ways in
Becoming a registered member of Mr n Mr is how the journey starts. We verify quietly, we protect your identity, and we introduce you to a community that shows up for each other every week.
Talk to us on WhatsApp — we'll walk you through it.
Our Bangalore Gay Matchmaking & Speed Dating evening — intimate, curated, and hosted in a boutique venue in Indiranagar. Twenty-five conversations. One room. One evening.
Early bird ends 20 July · Includes venue, F&B, and matchmaking flow
Or fill the enrollment form — link sent after WhatsApp.
Voices from the room
First names only — shared with consent. This is what the last three years of Sunday gatherings have looked like from the inside.
"I came in thinking I was here to meet someone. I left having learned how to actually listen — to myself first."
"Aditya and I met at a Sunday gathering in Mumbai. Two years in, we still say — the reason it worked is that we were both done pretending."
"I was terrified of walking into that room. An hour in, I was laughing. That's what Mr n Mr does — it lowers the temperature enough for you to be yourself."
How a Sunday goes
Private venue. First-name badges. A green or red wristband — your choice on whether the evening is photographed near you.
Six-minute rounds, seated. A gentle prompt on each table — something worth actually talking about. Then a break, then repeat.
Mark who you'd like to hear from again. Mutual matches get a warm introduction on WhatsApp within 48 hours. Nothing public, nothing exposed.
Bangalore chapter
In partnership with a boutique hotel in Indiranagar · venue disclosed on enrollment.
Members only. If you're not yet a member, start with Path 01 above and we'll walk you through joining before the event.
Discretion is part of the design
Green or red wristband at the door. Nothing shared without written consent.
Name, age bracket, city, contact. That's it. No employer, no health status.
Read and agreed to before every event. Sent with your enrollment confirmation.
We never run ads that out our members by association. Ever.
A closing thought
Every Sunday, somewhere in India,
Mr Right is walking into a room.
Your next relationship could begin with one conversation.